How I Became “You Should Quit Facebook” Guy
My friends have noticed that if we hang out for any amount of time, at some point, I’ll jovially suggest that they should quit Facebook.
I wasn’t planning on writing a “Why I Quit Facebook” post. It’s pretty self-righteous and there are more than enough of them out there already. I had read a half-dozen such posts before the notion of me quitting Facebook ever even crossed my mind, honestly.
And then, about 5 months ago, I just …quit. All of my reasons that were huge deterrents before — my long list of well-earned ‘friends,’ my carefully-curated profile, the peace of mind of being able to message anyone I’ve ever known — didn’t matter. Suddenly, I didn’t care.
So I’m writing this because lots of people ask me why I quit, and because I need to clear the air about the way I choose to use social media. I quit because Facebook was wasting my time, yes, and critically, because I wasn’t getting any value from it. That’s the important takeaway.
What I’m not saying: that I’m better than anyone who chooses to stay on Facebook, or that I don’t still actively waste time using social media.
People get awfully defensive about this topic, and call me a hypocrite because I check Twitter endlessly but pat myself on the back for quitting Facebook. And that’s all true. Briefly, without making this a post about Twitter, I feel that I get a lot more from it: the content (links, insight, news) is better, the people I follow are more interesting and the short format keeps everything faster-paced. Ultimately, I feel I get out of it as much as I put in.
With Facebook, this stopped being the case several years ago. I’ve been using it since college in its early days of 2004, and I’ve seen it change over the years. But I changed, too. My need to stay connected with a bunch of acquaintences I’m not that close with dropped significantly after college and, now, with seemingly everyone I know having even less free time than a few years ago, that need has dropped to zero. I still am just as connected with the people I really care about, through text or email — that hasn’t changed.
What I don’t miss? Seeing outrage over a local sport result I don’t care about (or anything about any sports result, basically). Hearing what a bartender I went to high school with has to say about a current hot-button political issue. Being extra careful with what I share because I know that extended family and a few too many former coworkers might be watching. Yeah, these are all really stupid things to complain about. But it was all bringing frustration into my life …for what benefit?
As far as I could see, none. I really didn’t get anything from it. The negatives, of which there are many, were just too annoying, and there were virtually no positives. Despite the lack of benefits, I couldn’t help myself from checking constantly. I’m at a computer a lot, and whenever there’s a moment between tasks (or worse, when stuck in the middle of a task), it was so easy to open a browser tab, navigate to Facebook practically subconsciously, and see what new updates there were. Seriously, typing the keys f, a and “Enter” is pretty much muscle memory to me. And when you get to your Facebook feed, it’s like tuning in to the world’s lamest reality show, but you can’t stop watching because you know the whole cast personally. No matter how unsatisfying the updates, I kept checking back.
It was so ingrained into my routine, it felt impossible to quit. But it’s not. Actually, it’s incredibly easy.
Why you can quit
I always thought, That’s great. But I can’t quit, because I use Facebook to…
Check in on people you aren’t close with and seeing what they’re up to.
This is only appealing because it’s easy and is an easy way to distract you from doing something productive. You’ll forget about this pretty much instantly. Quit.
Message people that I never text or don’t have their phone number.
If you don’t have their number by now, you probably will never ever have a reason to message that person. And if you really, really need to, you can likely reactivate your Facebook account and they will all be there*. Quit.
Set up invites to events and parties.
Ok for this one I don’t really have anything, because a lot of people annoyingly set things up as Facebook Events. I guilt-trip them. Grow up, right? Quit!
New Website Announcement
How ’bout them updates? It’s been pretty dead. If you remember, when I started this blog, it was sort of going to be a photoblog and behind-the-scenes about my photo projects. It still may be, occasionally, but the mission has changed. I’d rather just use this as a place to vent my crazy theories. It’ll be just a slight shift, since I’ve been doing that all along. Those were always the most interesting posts, anyway (at least to me).
I’m happy to say that my completely new photo portfolio is online:
McCauley Photo Co.
It’s funny how you can tweak and tweak something and never quite be happy with it, and sometimes that fussing even gets in the way of creating new things that you were trying to showcase all along. I’ve had this site looking sort of like this since around August, and in the months between then and now I’ve been changing content, the logo, and background stuff. What I’ve settled on should be pretty permanent. What’s also interesting (and good) is that at this time last year, my standards for myself and my work weren’t as high, and so work that I saw as ‘fine’ one year ago wouldn’t make the cut today. I’ve been trimming stuff and trimming stuff and — who knows — by this time next year, maybe I can raise it to a newer level and a lot of the stuff in there will be cut.
Related: feel free to check out my Tumblr, which I update more frequently, here.
Diminishing returns and the 991 GT3
A lot of people are counting on this car to be the ‘best-ever’ GT3, which makes no sense to me. The GT3 is the stripped, purest version of the 911, so why would I want it to start from the most complicated and arguably compromised 911 platform?
Before this car debuted, I had been wondering if the 997 was that last 911 that’s still cool to like. I’m just talking about standard model 911s, for right now. The 991 is an incredible car, but depending on your view of what the 911 is, it’s quite possible that the 991 is one increment too far from the 911 premise. In retrospect, we may see the 997 as the last 911 that seems traceable to the old cars.
That’s a broad, easily dismissed thought. But the beef with the GT3 isn’t. What is the GT3? It’s not the fastest 911. It’s the rawest, most precise and most sorted. If it was about being the fastest, it would be a Turbo. So if that’s the premise of the GT3, the 991 is such a polished, noise-canceling base to start with, it’s not ridiculous to theorize that the rawest variant of 991 is probably still more insulated and digitized than a base 996.
With this type of car, it’s simply a matter of diminishing returns. A big part of what makes the GT3 a GT3 is that it feels like the closest to an older 911. More racecar than luxury car. If that’s your view, why would you want a 991? If you think of the GT3 as just the fastest NA 911, this one is fine. It’s more GT-R than GT3, and it will be exceedingly quick. But I think the GT3 is about more than lap times. The people who equate “newest” with “best” will be very happy. It’s about connection, communication and the sensory inputs it delivers. A car that delivers less of those inputs can still be a very quick car, but I’m not sure it makes a great GT3.
We saw this happen with the M3, and it’s an almost inevitable dilemma: the goals of the mass-market platform move in the opposite direction of the goals of the niche, driving-oriented version. Because of this divergence, you can have a ‘perfect’, “best-ever” base car (in this case, standard 911, or regular 3-series) that achieves all of it’s goals, while the performance version is not as good as it’s predecessors. This is almost a certain fate for the GT3, if not this version.
And I never even mentioned PDK.
The ultimate guide to determine if your sedan-based coupe is useless
Whenever someone brings up a coupe that’s just a two-door version of an existing sedan, my impulse is to immediately criticize the vehicle and then make snap judgements about the life choices of anyone who’s bought one. They are completely useless.
I love impractical, useless cars. We all do. In a performance car, sacrifices must be made. Back seats? Toss them. Trunkspace? It had to go. But I’m not talking about performance cars here. I’m talking about the coupes made when a car company takes an existing four-door, and turns it into a coupe. It’s a recipe for…something bland that I’ve already forgotten the name and taste of.
2012 List: Every car I drove this year
Continuing my douchey humblebrag list of cars I’ve driven in the past year, here is my list for 2012. Same disclaimer applies: some I drove for ten minutes, some for a week.
Up until just two-and-a-half years ago, the most powerful car I had ever driven had 315 horsepower (BMW M Coupe). Thanks to greater opportunities, and ever-soaring horsepower figures in this crazy age we live in, that number has been topped countless times in some unexpected ways. To put it in perspective, 9 out of the 11 Ford models in this list have 365hp of more. Continue reading…